Marriage also has strong wind...
Don't lose hope... He's coming...
The night was dark, the sea was very rough; the fury of the wind shook the spirits and weakened the strength of the men, who rowed hard... The boat was already far from land; flogged by the waves; the wind was blowing against them...it was late in the morning and "Jesus still hadn't gone to where they were."
How many times are we like this, sailing, crossing the sea of life; everything is so peaceful; a beautiful family around, financial stability; large projects being executed; total calm...
But...suddenly the unexpected: the problem arises, the illness challenges, the emotional is shaken and the waves are so strong, that the forces are gone... and we recognize that we are too small to win! So were the disciples that night..."until Jesus came to them, walking on the sea".
It is precisely at the last moment that he comes; it is in the struggle that He comes; it is in despair that He comes; when the spirits cool, that He comes... and comes walking on the waves.. approaches the boat, the disciples do not recognize him... and fear! He says:-"It's me"; do not be afraid"!
Today the master comes to meet you, if he enters your vessel, if you give place in his life, he comes to change the situation, convert defeat into victory, the nightmare of the restless night, into calm, quiet and peace!
For the days of conflict within marriage... because they exist, ask Jesus for help, don't let disagreements end your dreams and projects. Take it easy, don't lose faith... do your best... stop to listen... change what is necessary... be willing to improve. Don't give up, call the master, so that he can enter your vessel!
ORE: Oh! Christ sent from God, I know that you are God himself; I believe and so I confess to you. Help me! The fury of the waves hit me, I feel frustrated, depressed, defeated...
Enter Lord my heart; you have here main place; reigns, dominates and takes me safe, in the blessing of your presence. In the name of Jesus! Amen
Things every couple should be aware of:
Every couple has conflict, after all, we are different, we differ in our way of thinking; however, the couple was united to adjust their way of seeing things and walk together, in the same direction, helping each other. Dr Steve Stephens, in his book "Designs for a Solid Marriage", says that conflict is like a hallway, which every house usually has, it's not a place to put furniture, nor stay there... it's just a place to pass through. quickly, to go to another room in the house.
· TO DEAL WITH CONFLICT
· Try to solve, instead of lying that it doesn't exist.
· Never make threats
· Don't dig up the past, or dig up things that are left behind,
· Don't just see the other as guilty; analyze well, you also have your participation, so that the conflict happened.
· Try not to belittle your spouse.
· Take care not to explode, this is not the best way.
· Don't use resources to manipulate, you don't have control of the situation.
· In a conflict, seek reconciliation.
· Don't worry about showing that you will win the issue, worry about solving the situation. We will have gains and losses, but marriage will definitely always be the winner!
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